--- Bachon ki --- Muashrati Tarbiyat Shaykh Zulfiqar Ahmed Naqshbandi (FROM DEOBAND NOT FROM AHLE SUNNAT)

Bachon ki Muashrati Tarbiyat Shaykh Zulfiqar Ahmed Naqshbandi

(FROM DEOBAND NOT FROM AHLE SUNNAT)


- ibrahim adam r.a. was a king. one night open his eyes from sleeping to see light to see what appears to be an enlightened person writing on a piece of paper - 22:45
- king asked, "who?". "i'm an angel" he replied - 23:05
- king asked, "what r u writing?" - 23:10
- he said, "i'm writing the names of the ppl who love allah ta'la" - 23:15
- the king inquired about his name to find that his name isn't there - 23:25
- king said, "if i'm not among ppl who love allah, then put my name among those who loves the servants of allah for the sake of allah" - 23:40
- the angel heard it & went away. after some time this incident happened again - 23:55
- king inquired to know that it was that angel - 24:00
- asked what was being written to know that he was writing the names of the ppl on that time with whom allah declares loves" - 24.05
- he inquired about his name to be answered his name came at 1st place. reason being that u love the servants of allah for the sake of allah so allah loves u - 24:15

- rasulullah s.a.w.w.w. said, "allah loves that person the most who love the servants of allah for the sake of allah" - 24:30
- once a jew became a guest of rasulullah s.a.w.w.w. to be well fed. he had loose motion. when he slept at night, he passed his stool on his bed. with shame he woke up at morning & went away. bad smell was coming from the beddings. he went outskirts of city to find a well where he washed his clothes & took a shower to be cleaned. he was shameful but he felt that any of his important things was left behind that can't ignore. when he returned to get that, he found that the beloved of allah was washing his defecation with his own hands. he reverted to islam right on the spot - 43:05
- rasulullah s.a.w.w.w. said, " اَلْمُؤْمِنُ لاَ يَخْدَعُ وَلاَ يُخْدَعُ " - a faithful neither deceives anyone nor get deceived - 44:30
- imam baqir r.a.'s advice to his son, "don't be friends with 5 kinds of ppl & if u've to walk on street & u've to accompany them, then don't even acconpany them" - 48:45

1. a fool ... cause he would try to make u be benifited but ultimately would make u a looser - 49:30

2. a liar ... cause he would show far as near & near as far - 49:50
3. a miser ... cause he would cheat with u in such a time when u would need him the most - 50:10
4. an impious & dishonest ... cause he would sell u for even less than a sup & even won't let u find out the trick - 50:25
5. a person who cut ties in relationship ... cause i've seen that allah rabbul 'izzat declared to be angry on such person - 50:55
- bahu sultan's rubai - 51:50
` not to be friends with bad friends & don't endanger our good fortune.
` the water of well that has bitter taste, won't be sweet even if u put 100k ton gur (sweet) into it.
` the offspring of snake won't ever be a friend even if u feed it milk by ur own hands.
` the offspring of a crow won't ever become a duck even if u feed it ruby.
` as bitter as indian gooseberry, it won't become a watermelon even if u take it to makkah.